A Meeting of Friends and a Musical in the City

In the morning I went to Carnegie briefly, and then went to the bio library to study only to fall asleep and consequently miss the first couple minutes of lecture. After bio lecture I stuck around that corner of campus got a little studying done in the bio library and then went to bio lab. This ended earlier than it sometimes does so I went to the post office afterward, found a ticket telling me a care package had arrived and got in line to wait to pick it up. Coincidentally, my bio lab partner soon got in line behind me, waiting to purchase some money order.

The line was not that long, but it was as usual kind of slow. I guess it was way too slow for the guy behind my lab partner, because he turned to her and offered to pay her to send a package for him, because he had to get to class. She looked surprised, but did not refuse. He filled out an overnight-mailing form and took of, leaving her with a twenty that would exceed the price of sending by about $5. She said that she would never be in such a rush as to pay someone; she’d just be late. I think I would do the same, and the thought crossed my mind that there was some nefarious item in the guy’s package that would be trouble for anyone who handled it.

But that did not turn out to be the case. After picking up my package, I went to Braun to practice organ for a bit, then stopped at Meyer to pick up some books on my way to Lantana.

I had arranged for a girl from my growth group bible study to meet Jia. The girl, called Jane Zhang, was interested in such a meeting because she is originally from Shanghai and Jia is an international student from Shanghai, of course. So when I got to Lantana I collected Jia from the cluster and we waited for her in our room. She also brought along another girl originally from Shanghai named Ling. Ling already knew Jia from a CS class they’d had together. Fei was also there. When Jane and Ling showed up, Jane talked to Jia in Shanghaiinese (a dialect of Chinese that is spoken in Shanghai). Earlier I had asked Jia to call Jane because I knew she liked to speak Shanghaiinese and thought she might not be comfortable doing so in the presence of someone who only spoke English. This turned out not to be the case, actually.

Ling noted Jane’s fondness of “practicing her Chinese” but she herself spoke only English through most if not all of the meeting; she is like Fei in this tendency to speak English and in the fact she later mentioned (on prompting from Fei) that she does not remember much of Shanghai from her childhood. I think Fei liked her better for that.

Conversation proceeded through dinner. We surprised Jane I think by mentioning that we drew last year with two people who graduated from the same high school as her in San Francisco. Conversation proceeded on various topics, but we had to break off around 6:30, the time that Nicola was to arrive back from a guitar lesson and take Jia, Fei and I to San Francisco to see the musical “Rent,” and Ling had to head off to a class. Jane moved to another table with people she had known previously.

On the way to her room Fei expressed her feeling of guilt because she’d invited Huat Chye to come in our car and then told him no. Jia agreed with her that she had been bad. In the car we moved on to other topics: namely discussing draw preferences. Jia was considering row houses near the dorm of a guy she knows and Fei was all for Manzanita, where some other people she likes will be living next year. Nicola and I did not voice opinions.

The area in which the theatre is located is kind of ghetto-ish. Nicola found a parking space in a lot a couple of blocks from the theatre. When we got out, a dirty and disheveled man approached us, exposing a red arm. He told us that he had crashed his bike and broken that arm and wanted something from us…Nicola refused for us and we hurried away. His red arm and story of being hurt were just a story to make us more willing to give him money…

As we walked up the street to the theatre Fei was considering her shoes, asking us if we thought they were the right size. Jia commented that they were too big; another dirty and disheveled man hanging out in front of a store commented that they were nice shoes and that he could take them off of Fei. We hurried on.

When we got to the theatre we briefly considered and rejected the idea of returning to the car and moving it closer.

The musical itself was entertaining; I think the best part was the music. Nicola said later that it was the best she’s seen.

After the show was over, we saw Huat Chye hanging around waiting for the party that drove him up there to gather themselves: Jia hesitated at first to approach him but then got up the nerve or whatever and invited him to join us, an invitation which he readily accepted.

Surprisingly, walking back to the car (perhaps because we were in swarms of other theatre-goers) was less of a hassle than walking from the car to the theatre. Fei had an idea to go restaurant, but we had difficulty finding an appropriate place that was open. We parked once to look at a place (which turned out to be closed) and were again approached for money…anyway, we decided to just head back. Huat Chye was particularly conversant with Jia on the way back (the three of us were in the back seat). Subjects of discussion included unemployment in Shanghai, the occupations of their respective parents, the appearance of his younger sister and the “Palm” billboard that features a naked woman.

When we got back we had the idea to go to Late Night; Huat Chye declined because he had a paper to write for a Chinese politics class he’s taking. We were surprised because he had earlier said he had no pressing work (while we were driving around “the city”); figure he had just been being polite. Anyway, the four of us went to Late Night. We met some people we knew, including a couple of guys from Castaño who are going to be living in an unfavorably distant dorm next year because they entered the disability draw and did not have a good enough number to be housed in the favorable dorm that specializes to some extent to disabilities. After this, back to Lantana and soon to bed!


A Birthday Bash with Boat Dance Banter

It is drawmate Ying’s birthday, so I left the gift certificate I got on Monday and a note I wrote the night previous on her door.  Went to work and then bio lecture @ 11.  Stayed in the lecture hall until it was time for chem @ 1:15.  The lab that day was easy, just testing an unknown drug on a kit that’s commercially available, working in pairs.  I and my partner got out around 4, I finished the lab report and then went to Meyer to study and work on problem set.  Went back to Lantana for dinner, ate with Jia and joined the rest of my drawmates (since we found out two of last year’s group aren’t drawing with us, my draw group is Jia, Fei, Nicola and Ying), Huat Chye and Chihiro.

By now Ying was pretty sure she wasn’t going to the Boat Dance.  Huat Chye asked her, if he could find someone to go with her would she go?  She reminded him that her reason for going was too much work, not a lack of company.  I asked him who he’d had in mind, and Jia said, “Of course, he meant himself.” Asked to confirm, he protested, “I most certainly did not!”  He did not seem to want to say who it was that he’d had in mind.

Anyway, everybody started getting up to leave, and Chihiro had the idea that while Ying was getting fruit or whatever in the dining hall that we should run to her room and wait there to surprise her and sing happy birthday to her.

We did this, though the surprise part did not quite work out! Soon we dispersed to study.  I picked up Late Night again on the way back, for Jia and also Ying whom I saw when I was leaving Meyer.  I saw Nicola when I was approaching Lantana (her window faces the walkway) and asked to get Ying’s strawberries from her refrigerator.  NS got her own gift for Ying and after stopping by my room and picking up Jia, dropping off Late Night we found Ying in her room.

Nicola gave her a gift of Japanese stationary, then we all went down to my and Jia’s room. All but Nicola ate Late Night snacks, and I presented Ying with the strawberries. Even RA Mary Niu dropped by and shared some of the Late Night goodies (one nugget and a piece of a breadstick).